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Seksualitet mai 25, 2007

Posted by polyamori in forhold, Glimt fra livet, Kjærlighet, polyamorøs teori, polyamori, polyamory, seksualitet, Trofasthet.
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Det er lett å være utro i tankene,
er det mindre utro enn å være det i kroppen?

Hvis jeg elsker med deg,
og tenker på henne,
hvem er jeg utro mot?

Hvis jeg elsker med henne,
og tenker på deg,
hvem er jeg utro mot?

Kan jeg ta henne med oss i sengen,
uten at det gjør at du blir redd for din seksualtitet?
Kan jeg si hennes navn,
uten at det får deg bli å føle deg mindre elsket?

Istedenfor å skjule meg, kan jeg vise meg,
kan du se min kjærlighet til noen andre
Uten å frykte at jeg elsker deg mindre

Kjærligheten er en muskel:
Den blir sterkere av å brukes

Hvis jeg slipper å bruke energien min
på å skjule tankene mine kan jeg bruke dem mer på å elske deg…

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Jeg elsker ikke med alle jeg ligger med
Jeg ligger ikke med alle jeg elsker

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Da jeg og hun var sammen med ham
var ikke ikke han min viktigste tenning,
men hvordan hun tente på å være sammen med to menn
og at jeg var en av dem

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Seksualitet er bare et ord
Ordet er ikke seksualiteten.
Rammen er ikke bildet.
Det hjelper oss bare å avgrense det…

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Kjærlighetsærklæringer mai 25, 2007

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Det er lettere for meg å si
jeg elsker deg,
(med hele meg)
hvis jeg kan legge til:
Så sant det også kan inkludere mine andre kjærester.

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Istedenfor å tenke på henne som min kvinne,
tenker jeg på henne som vår kvinne
Istedenfor å tenke på meg som hennes mann
tenker jeg på meg som forholdets mann

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Hvis man som forelder kan være glad i flere barn
Og være rettferdige mot dem
Kan man også være glad i og elske flere voksne
Og være trofaste mot dem

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At jeg også elsker noen andre,
gjør ikke min kjærlighet til deg mindre
At jeg også elskes av andre
gjør ikke din kjærlighet til meg mindre

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Det mystiske tallet 2 mai 24, 2007

Posted by polyamori in Barn, forhold, Glimt fra livet, Kjærlighet, polyamorøs teori, polyamori, polyamory, relasjoner.
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Fra vi er barn dras vi opp til at det magiske tallet er to, hvis vi opplever noe annet er det fordi foreldrene ikke har klart det. Barn vokser allerede opp med flere foreldre/voksenpersoner idag. Er det verre om disse faktisk bor i samme hus, istedenfor at barna sendes fra et foreldrepar/enslig til et annet?

En er en for lite
Tre er en for mye

Jeg tror at det kan være bra at barna har flere voksenmodeller rundt seg.

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Åpenhet mai 23, 2007

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De eneste du trenger å være åpne for i et polyamorøst forhold er de som du er involvert i, og i de som er involvert i deg. Så sant naboen, Jens Stoltenberg, Marianne Aulie, Fedon Lindberg, Dagbladet, politiske partier eller dagsrevyen ikke er en del av dine forhold behøver du ikke å si noe til noen av dem.

Siden kommer det et valg hvor det er dere som må avgjøre dette i felleskap, om venner, famile, barn, foreldre, kolleger skal være en del av de som vet hva du lever.

Det beste med å ha åpnet opp for venner og kjente er at jeg slipper å være så vag, om jeg så må svare på noen spørsmål og tåle en del replikker og forklaringer, så er det verdt å ikke svare tåkete og å vike unna. Men det krever styrke og tålmodighet, som å forklare forskjellen mellom polygami og polyamori enda en gang.

Om du velger å gå på julebord eller begravelse med dine to kjærester, så er det dere som velger om dere gjør det i åpenhet eller holder det skjult.

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Polyamori og prevensjon mai 23, 2007

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Prevensjon er viktig i polyamorøse forhold, fordi man involverer flere mennesker i sin seksualitet.

Det er viktig å sette grenser sammen og for seg selv.

Hvem er jeg sammen med uten å bruke kondom?
Kan jeg stole på de andre? Kan de andre stole på meg?

Prevensjon i teori er for enkelte noe annet en prevensjon i praksis

«Jeg bruker alltid kondom,» sa hun, «bortsett fra ved munnsex.»

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Seksualitet innebærer å utsette seg for to farer:

1) du kan smittes av sykdom, i værste fall HIV, men også klamydia, herpes, og annet.

2) du kan få en uønsket graviditet.

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De du går til sengs med, går også jeg til sengs med.

Om ikke direkte, så indirekte.

Når man har flere seksualpartnere, øker risikoen for at en av dem glipper.

«Jeg bruker alltid kondom ved analsex,» sa hun, «jeg beveger meg i en høyrisikosone. Jeg vet at jeg må ha vært sammen med noen som har hatt HIV, men pga. kondomene har det gått greit.»

En fordel med polyamori, er at det er åpenhet rundt hvem partneren er sammen med.
Det gjør det lettere å være snakke om dette.

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Tre minipolytreff mai 22, 2007

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Kort referat av minipolytreffene.

Vi har hatt tre stykker hittil.

Den torsdag 10 mai var vi to som møttes.
Da var det spennende nok bare å møtes, og å fortelle om sine forhold, om tanker og erfaringer.

Den 13 mai var vi tre stykker.
Dette var noen av temaene vi noterte oss som interessante.Vi fikk diskutert noen, andre kommer sikkert til å dukke opp igjen:

Dyrt kjøpte erfaringer/visdom
Andres reaksjoner på polyamori
Nettverk – møte – forum
Primær – sekundær – tærtier
Sjalusi
Internasjonalt samarbeid
Hvordan blir man mottat i Norge vs. Andre steder
Erfaringer med barneoppdragelse av polyamorøse foreldre
Begrepene – sammenheng
”forhold seksualitet (erotikk)
bipolyamori
Hva jeg ønsker i mine forhold
Komme ut i offentlighet
Mine forhold
Trofasthet
Polyamori på nettet
Samliv (bo) form
Spesielle erfaringer (hva som helst som er verdt å nevne)

Den mandag 21 mai var vi fire stykker som møttes.

Temaer vi hadde oppe var blandt annet:

Prevensjon
Åpenhet
Det mystiske tallet 2
Seksualitet
Grenser
Kilder til visdom (gode bøker, f.eks)
Storsamfunnet
Legning
Hva man ikke må snakke om / nevne i et polyamorøst forhold
Mine polyamorøse fantasier
Polytreff 10 juni
Livsformer

Neste gang vi møtes er det søndag den tiende mai i Oslo.
Da håper jeg at vi er mellom 10 og 20 stykker.
Langsomt samler vi oss…
Hvis du ønsker å være ta kontakt.

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P o l y a m o r i (at) s t a r t . n o

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MINI-POLYTREFF mai 20, 2007

Posted by polyamori in Glimt fra livet, Kjærlighet, Møteplassen, På søk, polyamori, polyamory, relasjoner.
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Det nærmer seg den tiende juni
og det store Polyamori-treffet!

I den anledningen har vi noen mini-polyamoritreff
første er mandag 21 klokken 18:00.

Hva vi snakker om?
Deler erfaringer, historier. Diskuterer, undrer.

Noen temaer fra siste treff:

Sjalusi,
Våre forhold
Problemer og løsninger,
hvordan få det til å virke,
hvordan bringe vanskelige temaer på bane,
Poly og boformer
Poly og familie
Poly og barn
Erfaringer fra utlandet

Og det er plass til en til.

(vi er ca. 4 til 6 på disse polyminitreffene)

Skriv hvis du er interresert i å delta.
Skriv gjerne litt om deg selv og dine erfaringer.
Og du må skrive til e-mail-addressen hvis du vil delta.

Hvis du ikke kan på denne mandagen, men er interresert i informasjon
så skriv likevel og vi sender deg info.

Polyamori(at)start.no

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Norsk Polyamorøs Ordbok x-y-z mai 8, 2007

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X – Y- Z

X – Y – Z

Zee n : Slang shape of four people in a poly relationship where two are sexual and two are not yet all four live in the same house

Zett subst : fire mennesker i et polyforhold hvor to er seksuelle og to ikke er det, likevel bor alle fire i det samme huset

Norsk Polyamorøs Ordbok s – w mai 7, 2007

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Safe Sex n : ideal 100% safe sexual activity and especially sexual intercourse in which various measures (as the use of latex condoms) are taken to avoid diseases (as AIDS and other STD’s) which are transmitted by sexual contact

Safer Sex n : reality, not 100% safe, sexual activity and sexual intercourse where various measures are taken such as the use of latex condoms and barriers to avoid sexually transmaitted disease also taking into account that no such measure is 100% safe or foolproof

Safe Sex Circle n : an agreement to confine exchange of bodily fluids and barrier-free intercourse to a closed group which has previously been screened for sexually transmitted diseases; syn. Condom Commitment n

Secondary Partner n : a person of polyamorous orientation that is intimately involved in your life but usually not daily, the person provide emotional support may or may not provide economic support, there may be some sharing of resources, goal and life paths but they are few as compared to primary partners

Sekundær partner : polyamourøs person som er intimt involvert i livet ditt, men ikke daglig, personen gir følelsemessig støtte, men kan eller kan ikke tilby økonomisk støtte, det kan være en viss deling av resurser, mål og livsvei, men de er færre enn sammenlignet med primær-partnere

Secondary Relationship n : a close relationship type, by definition it is given less in terms of time, energy and priority in a person’s life than any primary relationship, includes aspects of primary relating, such as sexuality and emotional support but usually involves fewer ongoing commitments as evidenced by fewer shared values, plans or finanical/legal involvements, may include a desire for a long term future together

Secret n or adj 1 : something kept from the knowledge of others 2 : hidden, concealed 3 : covert, stealthy; also : engaged in detecting or spying 4 : mystery 5 : kept from general knowledge; secretly adv

Self-Centered adj 1 : occupied or concerned only with one’s own affairs 2 : egocentric 3 : selfish

Self-Help n : care for or betterment of oneself by one’s own efforts as through study

Self-Improvement n : improvement of one’s status, mind , abilities, etc. by one’s efforts

Separation n 1 : the act or process of separating : the state of being separated 2 : a point, line, means, or area of division 3 : a formal separating of a married couple by agreement but without divorce

Serial Monogamy : a succession of monogamous partners over time, overlapping sexuality only in the transition from the current monogamous partner to next

Serie monogam: en rekke av monogame partnere over tid, overlappende seksualitet bare i overgangen fra den nåværende monogame partneren til den neste. (strengt tatt bør monoamorøs brukes så sant det ikke er snakk om ekteskap)

Sex n 1 : either of the two major forms that occur in many living things and are designated male or female according to their role in reproduction; also : the qualities by which these sexes are differentiated and which directly or indirectly function in reproduction involving two parents 2 : sexual activity or behavior; also : sexual intercourse; sexed adj; sexless adj

Sex Negative adj :a person with the belief that sexuality in general dirty or distasteful to including their own sexuality

Sex Negativ adj : en person som mener at seksualitet generelt er noe skittent eller smakløst inkudert deres egen sexualitet.

Sex Positive adj : a person who is comfortable with own sexuality and sexuality in general

Sexpositiv adj : en person som er komfortabel med sin egen seksualitet og med seksualitet generelt.

Sexual adj : of, relating to, or involving sex or the sexes; sexuality n; sexually adv

Simplicity n 1 : lack of complication : clearness 2 : candor, artlessness 3 : plainness in manners or way of life 4 : silliness, folly

Silence n or vb 1 : the state of being silent 2 : stillness 3 : secrecy silenced; silencing 1 : to reduce to silence : still 2 : to cause to cease hostile firing or criticism

Skeezer n : a male, closely related to the Old Greaser [See Old Greaser]. His open relationship policy generally means he just likes to have intercourse with anything that moves.

Skill n 1 : ability to use one’s knowledge effectively in doing something 2 : developed or acquired ability syn art, craft, cunning, dexterity, expertise, know-how; skilled adj

Social adj 1 : a social gathering 2 : marked by pleasant companionship with one’s friends 3 : naturally living and breeding in organized communities 4 : of or relating to human society 5 : of, relating to, or based on rank in a particular society; also : of or relating to fashionable society; socially adv

Society n, pl -ties 1 : companionship 2 : a voluntary association of persons for common ends 3 : a part of a community bound together by common interests and standards; esp : the group or set of fashionable people

Solitude n 1 : the state of being alone : seclusion 2 : a lonely place

Spice n : Plural of spouse

Spirit n 1 : a life-giving force; also : the animating principle : soul 2 cap : specter, ghost 3 : person 4 : disposition, mood 5: vivacity, ardor 6 : essential or real meaning : intent 7 : distilled alcoholic liquor 8 : loyalty 9 : to carry off secretly or mysteriously : spiritless adj

Spiritual n or adj 1 : of, relating to, consisting of, affecting the spirit : incorporeal 2: of or relating to sacred matter 3 : a religious song orginating among African Americans of the southern U.S. : spirituality n; spiritualize vb; spiritually adv

Sport Sex : see swinging

Spouse n : a persons husband or wife

Ektemake: en persons kone eller ektemann

Stable adj 1 : firmly established; also : mentally and emotionally healthy 2 : steady in purpose : constant 3 : durable, enduring 4 : resistant to chemical or physical change syn lasting, permanent, perpetual, perdurable; stability n; stabler adj; stablest adj

Stage n or vb 1 : a raised platform on which an orator may speak or a play may be presented 2 : the acting profession : theater 3 : the scene of a notable action or event 4 : a station or resting place on a traveled road 5 : a degree of advance in an undertaking, process, or development staged; staging : to produce or perform on or as if on a stage; stageable adj

Standard n or adj 1 : a figure adopted as an emblem by a people 2 : the personal flag of a ruler; also : flag 3 : something set up as a rule for measuring or as a model to be followed 4 : an upright support

Start n or vb 1 : a sudden involuntary motion : leap 2 : a spasmodic and brief effort or action 3 : beginning; also : the place of beginning 4 : to give an involuntary twitch or jerk (as from surprise) 5 : begin, commence 6 : to set going 7 : to enter or cause to enter a game or contest; also : to be in the starting lineup; starter n

Submit vb submitted; submitting 1 : to commit to the discretion or decision of another or of others 2 : yield, surrender 3 : to put forward as an opinion; submission n; submissive adj

Over adj, adv or prep 1 : upper, higher 2 : remaining 3 : ended 4 : across a barrier or intervening space 5 : across the brim 6 : so as to bring the underside up 7 : out of a vertical position 8 : beyond some quantity, limit, or norm 9 : above 10 : at an end 11 : through; also : thoroughly 12 : again 13 : above in position, authority, or scope 14 : more than 15 : on, upon 16 : along the length of 17 : through the medium of : on 18 : all through 19 : on or to the other side or beyond 20 : during 21 : on account of

Stepbrother n : the son of one’s stepparent by a former marriage

Stebror : sønnen av ens steforelder ved et tidligere ekteskap

Stepchild n : a child of one’s husband or wife by a former marriage

Stepdaughter n : a daughter of one’s wife or husband by a former marriage

Stepfather n : the husband of one’s mother by a subsequent marriage

Stepmother n : the wife of one’s father by a subsequent marriage

Stepparent n : one’s stepfather or stepmother

Stepsister n : the daughter of one’s stepparent by a former marriage

Stesøster : datteren av ens steforelder fra et tidligere samliv, ekteskap

Stepson n : a son of one’s wife or husband by a former marriage

Stesønn : sønn av ens kone eller ektemann fra et tidligere samliv, ekteskap

Story n, pl stories 1 : narrative, account 2 : report, statement 3 : anecdote 4 : short story 5 : lie, falsehood 6 : a news article or broadcast syn untruth, tale, canard

Stranger n 1 : foreigner 2 : intruder 3 : a person with whom one is unacquainted

Fremmed: 1 : utlending 2 : innbryter 3: person som man ikke kjenner ennå

Stress n or vb 1 : pressure, strain; esp : a force that tends to distort a body 2 : a factor that induces bodily or mental tension; also : a state induced by such a stress 3 : to put pressure or strain on 4 : emphasis 5 : relative prominence of sound 6 : accent; also : any syllable carrying the accent 7 : to put emphasis on : accent; stressful adj

Support n or vb 1 : the act of supporting : the state of being supported 2 : one that supports : prop, base 2 : bear, tolerate 3 : to take sides with : back, assist 4 : to provide with food, clothing, and shelter 5 : to hold up or serve as a foundation for syn uphold, advocate, champion; supportable adj; supporter n

Swap n or vb swapper; swapped; swapping : trade, exchange

Swing n,vb or adj 1 : the act of swinging 2 : a swinging blow, movement, or rhythm 3 : the distance through which something swings : fluctuation 4 : progression of an activity or process 5 : that may swing often decisively either way (as on an issue)

Swing Club n 1 : a meeting place where recreational sexual activity take place 2 : an organization that support, encourage and promotes recreational sexual activities

Swinger n : a person who is sophisticated, ultra-fashionable, active , uninhibited in the pursuit of pleasure or sex

Swinging vb : Recreational sexual activity, also called «sport sex» where partner’s or participant’s agree to have casual sex with each other’s. There is usually no emotional involvement. A form of monogamy in which usually two partners agree to have casual sex with other couples or singles

Swinging (verb) : seksuell aktivitet hvor partnere eller deltagere er enige i å ha uforpliktende sex med hverandre og hverandres. Det er vanligvis ikke noe emosjonel innvolvering. En form av momogami hvor to partnere er enie i å ha uforpliktende sex med andre par eller enslige.

Sympathy n or pl -thies 1 : a relationship between persons or things wherein whatever affects one similarly affects the other 2 : harmony of interests and aims 3 : favor, support 4 : the capacity for entering into and sharing the feelings or interests of another; also : compassion, pity 5 : an expression of sorrow for another’s loss, grief, or misfortune sympathetic adj; sympathetically adv

Synergy n 1 : the state of a system in which the whole is greater than the sum of its parts 2 : similar harmony as expressed musically 3 : interaction of discrete agencies (as industrial firms), agents (as drugs), or conditions such that the total effect is greater than the sum of the individual effects synergist n; synergistic adj; synergistically adv synergism n

System n 1 : a group of units so combined as to form a whole and to operate in unison 2 : the body as a functioning whole; also : a group of bodily organs (as the nervous system) that together carry on some vital function 3 : a definite scheme or method of procedure or classification 4 : regular method or order; systematic also systematical adj; systematically adv

Tact n : a keen sense of what to do or say to keep good relations with others; tactful adj tactfully adv tactless adj tactlessly adv

Talk n or vb 1 : to express in speech : utter words : speak 2 : discuss 3 : to influence or cause by talking 4 : to use (a language) for communicating 5 : converse 6 : to reveal confidential information; also : gossip 7 : to give a talk : lecture; talker n; talk back : to answer impertinently 8 : the act of talking 9 : a way of speaking 10 : a formal discussion 11 : report, rumor 12 : the topic of comment or gossip 13 : an informal address or lecture

Trantra n : 1 Hindu or Buddhist scriptures dealing with techiques and rituals including meditative and sexual prictices 2 : touch 3 : Yoga spiritual discipline 4 : sensation 5 : feel

Tertiary n or adj 1 : of third rank, importance, or value 2 cap : of, relating to, or being the earlier period of the Cenozoic era 3 : occurring in or being the third stage

Tertiær (subst eller adj) 1 : av tredje grad, viktighet eller verdi 2 : av, i forhold til å være den tidligere periode av den Cenozoic æra 3 : handler i eller er det tredje trinn

Tertiary Partner n : a person of polyamorous orientation that is intimately involved in your life erratically, the person provides limited emotional support, usually does not provide economic support, sharing of resources, goal and life paths

Tertiary Relationship : a relationship which may include emotional support or sexuality on a one-time or highly erratic schedule, attention or energy is given in bursts but the relationship is not a consistent part of a persons life

Tertiært forhold : et forhold som kan inkludere følelsesmessig støtte eller sexualitet på et engangs eller mer tilfeldig plan, oppmerksomhet og energi gis i skippertak/avgrensede perioder, men forholdet er ikke en viktig del av en persons dagligliv

Therapy n, pl -pies : treatment of bodily, mental, or behavioral disorders therapist n

Time n or vb 1 : a period during which an action, process, or condition exists or continues 2 : leisure 3 : a point or period when something occurs : occasion 4 : a set or customary moment or hour for something to occur 5 : age, era 6 : state of affairs : conditions 7 : a rate of speed : tempo 8 : a moment, hour, day, or year as indicated by a clock or calendar 9 : a system of reckoning time 10 : one of a series of recurring instances; also, pl : added or accumulated quantities or examples 11 : a person’s experience during a particular period 12 : the hours or days of one’s work; also : an hourly pay rate 13 : time-out : timed; timing 1 : to arrange or set the time of : schedule 2 : to set the tempo or duration of 3 : to cause to keep time with 4 : to determine or record the time, duration, or rate of timer n

Together adj or adv 1 : in or into one place or group 2 : in or into contact or association 3 : at one time : simultaneously 4 : in succession 5 : in or into harmony or coherence 6 : as a group : jointly togetherness n 7 : composed in mind or manner

Touch n or vb 1 : a light stroke or tap 2 : the act or fact of touching or being touched 3 : the sense by which pressure or traction on the skin or mucous membrane is perceived; also : a particular sensation conveyed by this sense 4 : mental or moral sensitiveness : tact 5 : a small quantity : hint 6 : a manner of striking or touching esp. the keys of a keyboard instrument 7 : an improving detail 8 : distinctive manner or skill 9 : the state of being in contact syn suggestion, suspicion, tincture, tinge 10 : to bring a bodily part (as the hand) into contact with so as to feel 11 : to be or cause to be in contact 12 : to strike or push lightly esp. with the hand or foot 13 : disturb, harm 14 : to make use of 15 : to induce to give or lend 16 : to get to : reach 17 : to refer to in passing : mention 18 : to affect the interest of : concern 19 : to leave a mark on; also : blemish 20 : to move to sympathetic feeling 21 : to come close : verge 22 : to have a bearing : relate 23 : to make a usu. brief or incidental stop in port syn affect, influence, impress, strike, sway

Tolerance n 1 : the act or practice of tolerating; esp : sympathy or indulgence for beliefs or practices differing from one’s own 2 : the allowable deviation from a standard (as of size) 3 : the body’s ability to become less responsive over time to something tolerant adj tolerantly adv

Traditional Monogamy n : only one partner who is a lifelong mate; primary intimacy and sexual fidelity only with this partner : also see monogamy

Triad n 1: any three person lovestyle. 2: three people involved in some way; most often used in a committed sense; in some cases involving ceremonies of commitment 3 : a union or group of three usu. closely related persons or things

Triade (subst) 1 : alle kjærlighetsforhold som inkluderer tre 2: tre mennesker involvert i hverandre; mest ofte brukt i en committed sense; i noen tilfeller med seremonier og committment 3 : en union eller gruppe av tre som oftest nært knyttede personer eller ting

Transgender n : a person who believes they were assigned the wrong gender and desires to undergo sexual reassignment surgery to correct their gender; transgenderism n

Transsexual n : a person who predisposed to identify with the opposite sex and desires to undergo surgery and hormone injections to change their sex; transsexualism n; transsexuality n

Transvestite n : a person and esp. a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior of the opposite sex; transvestite adj; transvestism n

Trait n 1 : a distinguishing quality (as of personality) : peculiarity 2 : an inherited charactersitic

Triangle n 1: (or equilateral triangle) relationship where three people are each involved with both of the others, sometimes also called a triad 2 : a plane figure that has three sides and three angles : a polygon having three sides 3 : something shaped like a triangle; triangular adj; triangularly adv

Trekant (eller likesidet trekant) et forhold hvor tre mennesker er hver involvert med begge av de andre, noen ganger også kalt en triade: 2 en plann figur som har tre kanter og tre sider: en polygon som har tre sider 3: noe som er formet som en trekant, f.eks en triangel, musikkinstrument.

Trigger n or vb 1 : a conditioned or movable device that activates a response 2 : to initiate, actuate, or set off as if by a trigger trigger adj triggered adj

Trisexual n : a sexual orientation of a person who prefers to have sex with two or more partners simultaneously

Triseksuell (verb) en seksuell orientering av en person som foretrekker å ha sex med to eller tre partnere samtidig. Tror vi kan konkludere med at dette er en liten fleip. Utrykket er hvertfall ikke i bruk.

Trust n or vb 1 : to place confidence : depend 2 : to be confident : hope 3 : entrust 4 : to permit to stay or go or to do something without fear or misgiving 5 : to rely on or on the truth of : believe 6 : to extend credit to 7 : assured reliance on the character, strength, or truth of someone or something 8 : a basis of reliance, faith, or hope 9 : confident hope 10 : financial credit 11 : a property interest held by one person for the benefit of another 12 : a combination of firms formed by a legal agreement; esp : one that reduces competition 13 : something entrusted to one to be cared for in the interest of another 14 : care, custody syn confidence, dependence, faith, reliance

Uncertainty n 1 : lack of certainty : doubt 2 : something that is uncertain syn concern, doubt, dubiety, incertitude, skepticism, suspicion

Unfaithful adj 1 : not observant of vows, allegiance, or duty : disloyal 2 : inaccurate, untrustworthy unfaithfully adv unfaithfulness n

Utro adj 1 : en som ikke holder løfter, eller utfører sine plikter: ulojal 2: unøyaktig, svikefull

Value n or vb 1 : something (as a principle or ideal) intrinsically valuable or desirable 2 : to consider or rate highly : prize, esteem 3 : to rate in usefulness, importance, or general worth 4 : a fair return or equivalent in money, goods, or services for something exchanged 5 : to estimate the monetary worth of : appraise 6 : the monetary worth of a thing; also : relative worth, utility, or importance 7 : an assigned or computed numerical quantity 8 : relative lightness or darkness of a color : luminosity 9 : the relative length of a tone or note valueless adj; valued vb; valuing vb; valuer n

Vee n : three people, where the structure puts one person at the bottom, or hinge» of the vee, also called the pivot point; in a vee, the arm partners are not as commonly close to each other as each is to the pivot

Ve subst : tre mennesker, hvor strukturen plasserer en person på bunnen, eller «hengselet» på veen, også kalt «vippepunktet»; i en ve, er ikke «armpartnerene» så nær som hver av dem er til vippepunktet.

Vow n or vb 1 : a solemn promise or statement; esp : one by which a person is bound to an act, service, or condition 2 : to make a vow or as a vow 3 : to bind or commit by a vow : vower n

Vulnerable adj 1 : capable of being wounded : susceptible to wounds 2 : open to attack 3 : liable to increased penalties in contract bridge; vulnerability n vulnerably adv

Warmth n 1 : the quality or state of being warm 2 : zeal, ardor, fervor

Wedding n 1 : a marriage ceremony usu. with accompanying festivities : nuptials 2 : a joining in close association 3 : a wedding anniversary or its celebration

Wedlock n : the state of being married : marriage, matrimony

Wife n, pl wives 1 : woman 2 : a woman acting in a specified capacity used in combination 3 : a female partner in a marriage wifehood n wifeless adj wifely adj

Kone, flertall koner 1: kvinne 2: en kvinnelig partner i et ekteskap, gift kvinne, hustru ha k- og barn / mann og k- / kona på garden eldre kvinne en gammel k- / kloke k-r, se klok i sms: yrkeskvinne vaskek-, torgk, koneløs, koneklar

Word n or vb 1 : something that is said; esp : a brief remark 2 : a speech sound or series of speech sounds that communicates a meaning; also : a graphic representation of such a sound or series of sounds 3 : order, command 4 : news, information 5 : promise 6 pl : quarrel, dispute 7 : a verbal signal : password word less adj 8 : to express in words : phrase

Woman n 1 : an adult female person 2 : womankind 3 : feminine nature : womanliness 4 : a female servant or attendant women pl : wom en folks n pl

Norsk polymorøs ordbok P – R mai 6, 2007

Posted by polyamori in forhold, Kjærlighet, kjønn, Ordbok, polyamorøs teori, polyamori, polyamory, seksualitet.
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Parent n 1 : one that begets or brings forth offspring : father, mother 2 : one who brings up and cares for another 3 : source, origin; parentage n; parental adj; parenthood n

Partner n 1 : short for life partner(s) gender-free, heterosexual assumption free term for someone with whom one is romantically involved with 2: spouse or SPICE 3: associate(s), colleague(s) 4: two or more persons who dance together 5 : one who plays on the same team with another 6: one of two or more persons contractually associated as joint principals in a venture; partnership n

Passion n 1 : strong feeling; also, pl : the emotions as distinguished from reason 3 : rage, anger 4 : love; also : an object of affection or enthusiasm 5 : sexual desire; passionate adj; passionately adv; passionless adj

Pattern n or vb 1 : to form according to a pattern 2 : an ideal model 3 : something used as a model for making things 4 : sample 5 : an artistic design 6 : configuration

P-cok n 1 : poly come-on king 2 : someone who is known to bestow numerous and usually clueless come ons on people, usually without provocation

Peace n 1 : a state of calm and quiet; esp : public security under law 2 : freedom from disturbing thoughts or emotions 3 : a state of concord (as between persons or governments); also : an agreement to end hostilities; peaceable adj ; peaceably adv; peaceful adj; peacefully adv

Personal n or adj 1 : of, relating to, or affecting a person : private 2 : done in person 3 : relating to the person or body 4 : relating to an individual esp. in an offensive way 5 : of or relating to temporary or movable property as distinguished from real estate 6 : denoting grammatical person 7 : a short newspaper paragraph relating to a person or group or to personal matters 8 : a short personal or private communication in the classified ads section of a newspaper

Perspective n 1 : the science of painting and drawing so that objects represented have apparent depth and distance 2 : the aspect in which a subject or its parts are mentally viewed; esp : a view of things (as objects or events) in their true relationship or relative importance

Plan n or vb 1 : a drawing or diagram showing the parts or details of something 2 : a method for accomplishing an objective; also : goal, aim; planned; planning 1 : to form a plan of 2 : intend; planner n

Play n or vb 1 : recreational activity 2 : to engage in recreation 3 : frolic 4 : the spontaneous activity of children 5 : jest 6 : to handle or behave lightly or absentmindedly 7 : to behave in a specified 8 : cooperate 9 : to deal with 10 : emphasize 11 : to perform for amusement 12 : to make a pun 13 : to take advantage 14 : to act in a dramatic medium 15 : to act in the character of 16 : wreak 17 : to contend with in a game 18 : to fill (a certain position) on a team 19 : to make wagers on 20 : wield, ply 21 : to keep in action 22 : an effort to arouse liking 23 : a stage representation of a drama 24 : a dramatic composition playful adj; playfully adv; playfulness n; player n; in play : in condition or position to be played

Plural Marriage n : a name often applied to Mormon-style polygyny, all the wives may live together or each may have her own home

Poly n or adj 1 : many or several 2 : Short for Polyamorous 3: The relationship orientation of people who love and want to be intimate with more than one person at a time 4: A relationship that is non-monogamous relationship 5: A person that is either in or at least interested in a multipartnered relationship and family

Polyactivist n : a person interested in taking action intended to counteract the political, social and religious enforcement of monogamy; Polyactivists help promote greater awareness of Polyamory as a legitimate relationship choice; polyactivism n

Polyamorous n 1 : practicing polyamory 2 : of or characterized by polyamory

Polyamorøst (subst) 1 : et som utøver polyamory 2: av eller karakterisert av polyamori

Polyamory n : is the nonpossessive, honest, responsible and ethical philosophy and practice of loving multiple people simultaneously. Polyamory emphasizes consciously choosing how many partners one wishes to be involved with rather than accepting social norms which dictate loving only one person at a time. Polyamory is an umbrella term which integrates traditional multipartner relationship terms with more evolved egalitarian terms. Polyamory embraces sexual equality and all sexual orientations towards an expanded circle of spousal intimacy and love. Polyamory is from the root words Poly meaning many and Amour meaning love hence «many loves» or Polyamory

Polyandrous n 1 : practicing polyandry 2 : of, engaging in or characterized by polyandry

Polyandry 1 : the state or practice of having two or more husbands at the same time 2 : the mating of one female animal with more that one male; polyandric adj; polyandrist n

Polyandri 1: tilstanden eller utøvelsen av å ha to eller flere ektemenn samtidig 2 : parringen av et kvinnelig dyr med mer enn en mannlig; polyandrisk adj; polyandrist 3 : i Mahabaharata, indisk epos er Draupadi gift med fem bødre.

PolyChildhood n 1 : the state of being a child in a multiple partnered relationship 2 : from infancy to puberty 3 : an early stage or development within a multiple partnered relationship

PolyChild n -ren pl 1 : a girl or boy in the period before puberty from a polyamrous marriage or relationship 2 : an infant; baby of polyamorous union

Polyerocist n : a person who practices or prefers sex with multiple partners

Polyerotiker : en person som utfører eller foretrekker sex med flere partnere

Polyeros n : a lifestyle or relationship in which sexual partners agree that they may take additional sexual partners

PolyFamily n 1 : all the people living in or sharing life experences in the same home or household 2 : a social unit consisting of multiple adult models 3 : when polychildren are present the term includes others adults, besides blood or birth parents, who are responsibly involved with the polychild or polychildren, most adult take an active role in polychild rearing 4 : a group of people related by common commune, tribe, clan, lineage, ancestry, relatives, commitment or marriage 5 : a sharing of living expenses and property

PolyFriend n 1 : a person whom one knows well and is fond of polyamorous people 2 : intimate associate or close acquaintance of a person of an polyamorous orientation

Polyfriendly n 1 : an ally of people of a polyamorous orientation 2 : amicable 3 : supporting, helping or favorable 4 : showing friendly feelings polyamorous people or unions 5 : ready to be a friends to polyamorous people or unions

Polyfi Fundamentalist n : Closely related to the One True Way Polyamorist [See One True Way Polyamorist], differing only in the fact that they believe polyfidelity is paramount to all of the other Poly-style relationships. Will politely tell you how immoral you are if you are not Polyfidelitous. Though, some will vehemently call you a swinger or wannabe if you argue with them.

Polyfidelitous adj 1 : practicing polyfidelity 2 : of, engaging in or characterized by polyfidelity

Flertrofasthet adj : en trofasthet mot flere, ikke begrenset til en person 2:

Polyfidelity n : a group in which all partners are primary to all other partners and sexual fidelity is to the group; shared intent of a lifelong run together. More primary partners can be added with everyone’s consent. The term was coined by the Kerista commune

Polyfidelity, fler-trofasthet, en gruppe hvor alle partnere er primære til alle andre partnere og seksuell trofasthet er til gruppen; delt intensjon om å holde sammen et livsløp. Flere primærpartnere kan legges til med alles aksept. Utrykket kom opprinnelig fra Kerista bofelleskapet.

Polygamous adj 1 : practicing polygamy 2 : of, engaging in or characterized by polygamy

Polygamy n : the practice of having more than one wife or husband at one time; polygamist n; polygamous adj

Polygami betyr å være gift med flere.

Polygynous adj 1 : practicing polygyny 2 : of, engaging in or characterized by polygyny

Polygyny n 1 : the state or practice of having two or more wives at the same time 2 : the mating of a male animal with more than one female

Polygyni, når en mann er gift med flere kvinner, 2 : når et mannlig dyr parrer seg med mer enn et kvinnelig

PolyLove n 1 : strong affection or attraction to more than one person 2 : the strong belief that human beings are capable of having love and affection for more than one person at a time 3 : warm attachment and joyful feeling in presence of your beloveds 4 : attraction based on sexual desire multiple partners 5 : intimate fantasies and dreams about multiple partners 6 : beloved people 7 : unselfish loyalty, benevolence and concern for others 8 : to feel a passion, devotion, or tenderness for multiple partners or loveones 9 : to take pleasure in being with many

PolyLover n : a person of polyamorous orientation with whom you have an intimate relationship

PolyMarriage n 1 : the state of being committed in multiple partnered relationship 2 : a multiple partnered relationship where commitment ritual was performed 3 : any close or intimate multi partnered union of duration

PolyPartner n : a person of polyamorous orientation that you are intimately involved

PolyRelationship n : a multiple partnered polyamorous relationship

Poly Mantra n or v: communicate, communicate, communicate and then communicate some more

Poly mantra : kommunikasjon, kommunikasjon, kommunikasjon og så enda litt … kommunikasjon!

Positive n or adj 1 : expressed definitely 2 : confident, certain 3 : the positive degree or a posive form in a language 4 : of, relating to, or constituting the degree of grammatical comparison that denotes no increase in quality, quantity, or relation 5 : not fictitious : real 6 : active and effective in function 7 : numerically greater than zero 8 : affirmative; positively adv; positiveness n

Power n or vb 1 : the ability to act or produce an effect 2 : a position of ascendancy over others 3 : authority 4 : one that has control or authority 5 : physical might 6 : mental or moral 7 : force or energy used to do work 8 : the time rate at which work is done or energy transferred 9 : magnification 10 : to supply with power and esp. motive power; powerful adj; powerfully adv; powerless adj

Primary adj 1: first in order of time or development 2 : preparatory 3: of first rank or importance 4 : fundamental 5 : not derived from or dependent on something else

Primary Partner n : a person of polyamorous orientation that is intimately involved in your life on day to day basis, the person provide emotional and economic support, there is mutual sharing of resources, goal and life paths

Primary Relationship n 1 : the closest relationship type, the person(s) given the most time, energy and priority in a person’s life; includes high level of intimacy, attraction and commitment as demonstrated by marriage-level bonding (such as shared life paths, goals, parenting, economics, housing, important values, ongoing emotional support, etc.), typically includes a desire for a shared lifelong future together

Principle n 1 : a general or fundamental law, doctrine, or assumption 2 : a rule or code of conduct; also : devotion to such a code 3 : the laws or facts of nature underlying the working of an artificial device 4 : a primary source : origin; also : an underlying faculty or endowment 5 : the active part

Problem n 1 : a question raised for consideration or solution 2 : an intricate unsettled question 3 : a source of perplexity or vexation; problem adj

Process n or vb, pl processes 1 : progress, advance 2 : something going on : proceeding 3 : a natural phenomenon marked by gradual changes that lead toward a particular result 4 : a series of actions or operations directed toward a particular result 5 : legal action 6 : a mandate issued by a court; esp : summons 7 : a projecting part of an organism or organic structure 10 : to subject to a special process

Protest n or vb 1 : the act of protesting; esp : an organized public demonstration of disapproval 2 : a complaint or objection against an idea, an act, or a course of action 4 : to assert positively : make solemn declaration of 5 : to object strongly 6 : make a protest against protestation; n protester or protestor n

Psychology n, pl -gies 1 : the science of mind and behavior 2 : the mental and behavioral characteristics of an individual or group; psychological adj; psychologically adv; psychologist n

Purpose n 1 : an object or result aimed at : intention 2 : resolution, determination; purposeful adj; purposefully adv; purposeless adj; purposely adv purposed; purposing : to propose as an aim to oneself

Quad n : a multiple partnered relationship with four members

Kvad (subst) : et flerpartner forhold som inkluderer 4 medlemmer

Queen n 1 : slang for drag queen 2 : an effeminate person

Queer n or adj 1: A homosexual or lesbian person 2 : Unconventional, uncommon, unusual, unique, unorthodox, uncustomary, unwanted, rare, atypical, original, singular, exceptional, individual, unexampled, unparalleled, unprecedented, unfamiliar, uncomfortable; odd, curious, peculiar, offbeat, cranky; incongruous, anomalous, irregular, abnormal, deviate, deviant 3 : Infers funny

Queer Friendly n 1 : an ally of people of a homosexual orientation 2 : amicable 3 : supporting, helping or favorable 4 : showing friendly feelings toward homosexual people or unions 5 : ready to be a friend to homosexual people or unions

Question n or vb 1 : an interrogative expression : query 2 : to ask questions 3 : a subject for debate; also : a proposition to be voted on 4 : doubt, dispute 5 : to subject to analysis : examine syn interrogate, quiz, query 6 : inquiry; questioner n

Rebuild vb 1 : repair, reconstruct; also : remodel 2 : to build again; rebuilding vb; rebuilt vb

Reflect vb 1 : to bend or cast back (as light, heat, or sound) 2 : to give back a likeness or image of as a mirror does 3 : to bring as a result 4 : to cast reproach or blame 5 : ponder, meditate; reflection n; reflective adj; reflectivity n

Refuse n or vb refused; refusing 1 : to decline to accept : reject 2 : to decline to do, give, or grant 3 : rejected or worthless matter : rubbish, trash : deny refusal n

Relationship n : the state of being related or interrelated

Forhold : tilstanden å ha eller å være i et forhold

Relationship Orientation n 1: the perference for sexual relationships or lovestyles which are monogamous, nonmonogamous, intimate network, Polyfidelitous, etc. 2: the design or structure of a sexualove relationship. Like the term lifestyle, it implies a conscious choice syn. Lovestyle

Remarriage n : the state of being or getting married again

Renewal n 1 : the act of renewing : the state of being renewed 2 : something renewed

Rescue vb rescued; rescuing : to free from danger, harm, or confinement; rescue n; rescuer n

Resent vb : to feel or exhibit annoyance or indignation at; resentful adj; resentfully adv; resentment n

Resignation n 1 : an act or instance of resigning; also : a formal notification of such an act 2 : the quality or state of being resigned

Resolution n 1 : the act or process of resolving 2 : the action of solving; also : solution 3 : the quality of being resolute : firmness, determination 4 : a formal statement expressing the opinion, will, or intent of a body of persons

Respect n or vb 1 : to consider deserving of high regard : esteem 2 : to refrain from interfering 3 : relation to something usu. specified : regard 4 : high or special regard : esteem 5 pl : an expression of respect or deference 6 : detail, particular; respectful adj; respectfully adv; respectfulness n

Responsibility n, pl -ties 1 : the quality or state of being responsible 2 : something for which one is responsible

Ritual n or adj 1 : the established form esp. for a religious ceremony 2 : a system of rites 3 : a ceremonial act or action 4 : a customarily repeated act or series of acts; ritualism n; ritualistic adj; ritualistically adv; ritually adv

Role n 1 : an assigned or assumed character; also : a part played (as by an actor) 2 : function

Rolle (subst) 1 : en gitt eller antatt karakter, og så en rolle spilt (som av en skuespiller) 2 : funksjon

Romance n, vb or adj 1 : to exaggerate or invent detail or incident 2 : to have romantic fancies 3 : to carry on a romantic episode with 4 : a medieval tale of knightly adventure 5 : a prose narrative dealing with heroic or mysterious events set in a remote time or place 6 : a love story 7 : of or relating to any of several languages developed from Latin 8 : a romantic attachment or episode between lovers romancer n; romanced vb; romancing vb

Romantic n or adj : a romantic person; esp : a romantic writer, composer, or artist 2 : imaginary 3 : visionary 4 : having an imaginative or emotional appeal 5 : of, relating to, or having the characteristics of romanticism romantically adv